Having sex in exchange for money means that someone offers you money to have sex with him or that you pay someone to have sex with you. It is not illegal to receive money for sex as long as you stick to certain rules. If you pay for sex, you are the customer of a sex worker.
In the Netherlands, paying someone for sex or receiving money in exchange for sex sex work, prostitution is not against the law as long as the following conditions are met. Customers are not punishable as long as the person who offers sex meets the following conditions:.
These conditions always hold, even if you have sex for money only once. But of course they also hold if you work as an escort or payboy on a regular or professional basis. Do you want to pay someone to have sex with you? Keep in mind the following tips and stick to the following rules to keep the sex for yourself and for the escort, payboy or prostitute both legal and pleasurable:. While you are out at bars or clubs, in chat rooms or on dating sites, men may offer you money for sex.
That could happen even if you are not offering yourself as a payboy or escort. Whatever you might call yourself, if you have sex in exchange for money or valuable things, you are working as a sex worker. In other words, it is not a matter of how often you get paid to have sex.
Always keep in mind the following tips:. If you give blow jobs without a condom, make sure you always get tested for STIs in your mouth. Would you like to know more about sex work, or do you want advice and support? Soa Aids Netherlands uses cookies to analyze the actions on the website and thus bring usability improvements. If you do this you do not agree to changes your preferences. Everything about sex Your feelings for men Coming out. Know your body Sex techniques Preparing for sex.
